Affair Problem Solution by Astrologer Devraj Sharma: A Practical Guide for Husbands, Wives, and Couples
Finding out about an affair, or suspecting one, can make the ground feel like it is moving. You cannot sleep. You replay every conversation. You do not know whether to shout, stay silent, or leave.
I am Devraj Sharma, a Vedic astrologer with 25+ years of experience. People bring me this problem at their lowest point. I will tell you two things first. A birth chart cannot tell you whether your spouse is cheating. And I will not promise to end an affair or bring anyone back. What I can do is help you act calmly, understand the pattern and timing in your chart, and choose your next step with a clear head.
Affair Problem Solution for Every Situation: 6 Cases I See Most
You Suspect an Affair but Have No Proof
What I often hear: “He is always on his phone, and he has gone cold. I have no proof, but I know something is wrong.”
What helps: Write down what you saw, not what you fear. Then ask once, calmly, starting with “I feel.” Do not search through his phone or accuse him of a name. If you get no answer, a counsellor can help you ask the question in a safer way.
You Found Out Your Husband Is Having an Affair
What I often hear: “I found messages. I feel like a fool, and my family already knows.”
What helps: An affair is a choice he made. It does not measure your worth. Give yourself a few days before you decide. Talk to one trusted person and a counsellor. Speak to a family lawyer before you leave home or sign anything. The legal section below explains your options.
You Found Out Your Wife Is Having an Affair
What I often hear: “I do not know who to talk to. Everyone gives advice to wives.”
What helps: Your pain counts as much as anyone’s. Do not confront the other man or his family, and do not do the same in return. That only adds damage. Take a few days. Speak to a counsellor or one friend you trust, not to the whole family. A lawyer can explain your options if children, money, or property are involved. My consultation is open to husbands, and I do not judge.
You Had the Affair, and You Feel Guilty
What I often hear: “I ended it, but I do not know how to face my spouse.”
What helps: End all contact with the other person, fully. When your spouse is ready to listen, tell the truth. Do not say “it meant nothing,” and do not blame your spouse. Do not ask for quick forgiveness. Rebuilding takes months, and a counsellor can guide you both.
It Is an Emotional Affair, with Chats and Secret Messages Only
What I often hear: “Nothing physical happened, so is it really an affair?”
What helps: If it broke trust, it counts. Name what each of you was missing, and agree on clear rules about contact and privacy. See the Husband-Wife Problem Solution.
The Affair Ended, but Trust Has Not Returned
What I often hear: “It is over, but I still check his phone and replay everything.”
What helps: Agree on openness: honest answers, no secrets, and a set time each week to talk. Trust comes back through steady behavior over months, not through one promise. The plan below shows what a realistic path looks like.
How to Talk About the Affair: What to Say and What to Avoid
“I know about it. I am not here to shout. I need the truth, and I need a few days to think.”
“Is it over?”
“I need to hear what you want from this marriage.”
The part that matters most is the Dasha, the planetary period you’re running now. A combination can sit quietly in a chart for decades and only matter when its period arrives. So I won’t tell you, “You have Venus-Rahu, so someone is cheating.” ” A chart shows tendencies and timing. It can’t show what is actually happening in your home.
Affair Problem Solution by Astrology: What a Birth Chart Adds
When you give me your birth date, time, and place, I read how you handle trust, anger, and loneliness and which planetary period you are in now. Some periods bring more strain and secrecy than others. If I have your spouse’s details, I compare both charts to see where you pull in different directions.
That gives you three things: a calmer view of what is happening, a rough sense of which months are heavier or easier for hard talks, and a way to speak without blame.
“Remedies” I Ask You to Avoid
- Spread something on the side of the bed where your spouse sleeps. A secret ritual on your spouse is not consent, and it cannot repair trust.
- Write the name of the person you suspect on paper or seeds. Naming a third person can lead to false accusations and real trouble.
- Pay for vashikaran or a “special puja” to stop an affair. Nobody can control another person’s choices.
- Buy a gemstone as a cure. A stone does not repair trust
Read how I explain Vashikaran on my Vashikaran Specialist page.
How to Rebuild Trust After an Affair: A Month-by-Month Plan
- Weeks 1 to 2: Stop and steady. The affair ends completely, with no contact. The truth comes out, without every detail. Nobody makes big decisions.
- Month 1: Get help. Find a counsellor who works with couples. Agree on rules: openness about phones and plans, and one set time a week for questions.
- Months 2 to 3: Rebuild daily life. Share meals, time, and chores again. Hold a weekly check-in. Look at what was missing in the marriage, without using it as an excuse.
- Months 4 to 6: Review. Ask whether trust is coming back. Decide together to continue, to extend the work with help, or to separate with a lawyer’s advice.
The person who was hurt sets the pace. The person who cheated shows change through steady actions, not words. If you decide to separate, read Husband-Wife Separation Problem Solution and Divorce Problem Solution.
Affair Problem Solution With Devraj Sharma: What a Consultation Looks Like
- Before the call. You send your birth date, time, and place, your spouse’s if you have them, and a few lines about what happened. I read the chart before we talk, so we do not waste time on basics.
- On the call. We speak by phone or video for flexible timing in [Hindi / English / Gujarati]. You tell me what happened. I tell you what I see in plain words, and you can ask me anything. I do not judge whether you are the person who found out or the person who had the affair.
- After the call. You leave with [a written summary]: the pattern I see, the months that look heavier or easier, and two or three clear steps. If a simple remedy fits your chart, I explain why
How this helps you:
- You see your situation more clearly.
- You know which months suit hard talks.
- You can speak without blame.
- You leave with steps, not rituals.
Consultations for clients in Surat and Jaipur
I consult by phone and video, so you don’t need to travel. The session is the same as if you were sitting across from me. → Surat | Jaipur
What I will not do: I will not tell you whether your spouse is cheating, name the other person, or promise to end an affair or bring anyone back. I will not perform any ritual on your spouse. I do not give legal advice.
Who should book: a husband, a wife, or the person who had the affair.
Q: Can astrology tell me if my spouse is having an affair?
A: Astrology can highlight planetary periods associated with instability, distraction, or third-party interference in a marriage, which combined with your own observations can offer clarity. It isn’t a substitute for direct, honest conversation with your spouse.
Q: Can Devraj Sharma help save my marriage after an affair?
A: He can offer remedies and guidance aimed at rebuilding trust and communication if both partners are willing. Whether the marriage is repaired ultimately depends on both people’s efforts—this is explained honestly, not promised as a guaranteed outcome.
Q: Which planets are linked to extramarital affairs in a Kundli?
A: Traditionally Venus, Mars, Rahu, and the Moon, working through the 7th house and its lord. What matters is whether the relevant Dasha is running now.
Q: What if I just want clarity, not necessarily to save the marriage?
A: That’s completely valid. Devraj Sharma tailors the consultation to your actual goal—whether that’s reconciliation, clarity, or making a confident decision either way.
Q: Is phone/online consultation appropriate for something this personal?
A: Yes, many clients specifically prefer phone or online consultations for sensitive marital matters for privacy and comfort.
Q: Do you use Vashikaran for affair problems?
A: I don’t do anything to influence a person without their knowledge. Any remedy that involves your spouse is one they know about.