Ex Back Solution by Astrologer Devraj Sharma: A Practical Guide to Getting Your Ex Back
A breakup leaves one question running in your head: is there still a way back?
I am Devraj Sharma, a Vedic astrologer with 25+ years of experience. People come to me at exactly this point: tired, sleepless, and checking their phone every few minutes. I will say this first. I cannot make your ex come back, and nobody can. What I can do is help you think clearly, act in a way that does not push your ex further away, and read what your birth chart says about timing.
This guide gives you a plan for the first 30 days, seven questions to decide whether going back is right, the words to use in a first message, and a plain explanation of what astrology can and cannot do.
Should You Get Your Ex Back? 7 Questions to Ask Yourself First
- Why did we break up? Write it in one sentence.
- Has that reason changed, or will it come back?
- Were we mostly kind to each other, or did we often hurt each other?
- Do I miss this person, or do I miss not being alone?
- Is there something my family or friends saw that I do not want to see?
- Can each of us name one change we would make?
- After we talk, do I feel lighter or smaller?
Ex Back Problems and Solutions: 6 Situations I See Most
Your Ex Blocked You or Ignores Your Messages
What I often hear: “I messaged ten times, and now I am blocked.”
What helps: Stop. Do not make new accounts or ask friends to pass messages, because that pushes your ex away and can lead to a complaint. Follow the 30-day plan. If your ex opens the door later, the one-message rule applies.
You Broke Up After a Big Fight
What I often hear: “We said things we did not mean.”
What helps: Wait until you both feel calm. Say sorry for your part once, without adding “but.” Do not argue the old fight again.
Your Ex Is in a New Relationship
What I often hear: “He moved on in two months. Will it last?”
What helps: Do not interfere. It rarely helps, and it hurts you. Focus on healing. A reading can give you clarity for yourself, not a plan to break up someone else’s relationship.
Family or Caste Pressure Ended the Relationship
What I often hear: “We loved each other, but both families said no.”
What helps: Ask whether both of you are ready to face your families together. If you are, choose calm moments for family talks. See Love Marriage Problem Solution.
You Keep Breaking Up and Getting Back Together
What I often hear: “This is our third breakup.”
What helps: Write down what happens before each breakup. The pattern matters more than the reunion, because another round with the same pattern ends the same way. A reading can show your natural habits in love, so you spot them early. See Love Problem Solution.
Your Ex Is Your Former Spouse
What I often hear: “We divorced last year, and I keep thinking about getting back together.”
What helps: Everything above applies. Also speak to a lawyer if children, money, or property are still being settled. See Divorce Problem Solution.
Ex Back Solution by Astrology: What a Birth Chart Adds
A birth chart is a map built from your birth date, time, and place. Devraj Sharma read how you handle love, anger, and distance and which planetary period you are in now. Some periods bring more stress and mix-ups than others. If Devraj Sharma has your ex’s details, Devraj Sharma can compare both charts to see where you pull in different directions.
That gives you three things: a calmer view of why it ended, a rough sense of which months are easier for a calm talk, and a way to look at the relationship without blame.
What a Reading Cannot Do?
- It cannot bring your ex back.
- It cannot give you a date.
- It cannot read your ex’s mind.
- It cannot replace the work in the plan above
5 Warning Signs of an Ex-Back Scam
- Someone promises your ex will return in a fixed number of days.
- Someone asks for big money for a “special puja” to bring your ex back.
- A page sells a bracelet, a yantra, or a “healing plan” as the solution.
- Someone blames black magic for your breakup and then sells a removal ritual.
- Someone offers love spells or vashikaran to control your ex.
I use none of these. Read how I explain Vashikaran on my Vashikaran Specialist page.
Ex Back Solution With Devraj Sharma: What a Consultation Looks Like
Before the call. You send your birth date, time, and place, your ex’s if you have them, and a few lines about what happened. Devraj Sharma read the chart before we talk, so we do not waste time on basics.
On the call. We speak by phone or video for preferable timing in [Hindi / English / Gujarati]. You tell me what happened. Devraj Sharma tells you what I see in plain words, and Devraj Sharma answers your questions, including whether I think going back is wise.
After the call. You leave with [a written summary]: what the chart shows about the breakup, the months that look easier for a calm talk, and two or three clear steps. If a simple remedy fits your chart, I explain why.
What I will not do: I will not promise your ex will return or give you a date. I will not perform any ritual on your ex or anything without their knowledge. I will not help you contact someone who asked you not to.
Who should book: anyone who wants a clear, calm view before a big step. If you want someone to control your ex, this is not the right place.
Consult by Phone or Video From Surat, Jaipur, or Anywhere in India
Your birth chart does not need me in the room. I consult clients in Surat, Jaipur, and across India by phone and video.
Start with space, work out what went wrong, change what is yours to change, and send one respectful message. Then accept the answer you get.
I can’t promise that. The chart can show periods that look more or less open. Anyone who guarantees a return is guessing.
That’s your decision. I look at both the connection and the pattern, and I tell you honestly what I see. A painful or unhealthy pattern is a good reason to think twice.
Yes. I can give you clarity and timing. I won’t help you interfere with anyone’s relationship.
No one can give an honest date. I give you a timeline of more and less open periods, not a promise.